I think a lot of the negative comments are caused by the internet's "non-intimacy".
While most people are considerate enough to "behave" when being invited to somebody's living room (i.e. label forums), some don't really "get" the idea that they're downright insulting the very people that produce what they are buying...
I somehow strongly doubt that the "Nicolas" (as in q: "honey, why do you wear brown shoes with black pants?" a: "dear, don't go all nicola on me, o.k.?") in our world would have the nerve to talk like that to people they ACTUALLY meet. They think it's the "freedom" of speech policy that they're entitled to...
I think the nitpickers should open up a special forum themselves. Something like
http://www.myfavoritelabelforcesmetobuy ... roduct.com.
I know the frustration sobs like that can bring you, believe me. I am running a jazz club in Bern, Switzerland and we present absolute top artists throughout the year (think Monty Alexander, Michel Camilo, Ahmad Jamal, McCoy Tyner, Pharoah Sanders and so on) that you can see no other club in Switzerland. And I must say that a certain "Nicola" part of our regulars get infuriated if they are seated a mere 2 feet next to their favorite table. They don't care if the room is full and they only reserved a few hours before the gig. They get mad and insulting and this sometimes gets me stark raving mad in return and I have to be very careful to not lose the etiquette sometimes.
But then I breathe deeply (or inhale deeply, as I am usually going out to smoke after such an incident) and always realise that these buggers are the minority, while the vast majority enjoys our concerts and good hospitality.
Should I go home and think about these idiots or should I be glad the other 99% are enjoying what I work for and believe in?
I try to stay optimistic. Sometimes i think as much as those nattering naybobs of negativity are spoiled with too much of a good thing, we are spoiled with being among decent, respectful people and hence occasionally get dragged down by some single, stupid and inconsiderate comments. That's only natural.
Now I say "let's just ignore the idiots and keep up our spirit". That is until next time, when some ignorant bastard messes up my day with disrespectful comments
In any case, I cannot thank you "makers" enough for putting so much great music out there... I still put myself back into my early soundtrack days of the early 80's. Man, if i would have known... the wait would have been torture!
Please keep up the good spirits and please do feel free to ban trespassers that do not respect the rules of the house. It IS your living room, after all!
Best,
Burnie